Or tea? (…Is it wine time yet?) Let’s settle in and chat. I’m really glad you stopped by because there is no time like now to find your happiness.
I know you may feel a little lost, or like you know you are meant for something other than what you are doing right now. You feel a sense of greatness to come but haven’t found the path that feels right yet. Maybe you don’t know how to find that path, or where even to start looking. Well don’t worry, that’s why the universe led you here. Welcome to your first step.
I was once where you are. I spent my days in a job that I tolerated to make ends meet. I spent my evenings doing the same thing, or versions of the same thing, every night. None of those things were bringing me closer to any sort of goal, or any type of fulfillment.
My reality was that I spent a decade going out with friends every night, unsure of how to change my life or find a purpose. Then I followed that up with a couple years of being a stay-at-home-mom and losing any personal identity I had before that. Being a mother is wonderful and a big part of who I am now, but it did not fulfill my desire and sense of calling. At the time I was leaning into it so much. I thought it was supposed to become my world..
FINALLY! I would feel whole, and like I was who I was meant to be! I would feel fulfilled!
Except… that is not how it happened for me. It does for some people, and according to traditional society that is how it is supposed to be. But, it didn’t fill me up in that way. Which then made me feel even more lost and I started to feel terrible about myself.
I was in the same place I was before becoming a mother, except without a nightly escape from the thoughts and feelings that I wasn’t living up to who I was supposed to be.
Today I am able to embrace motherhood and it does fill me up. It’s able to because it is not the only thing filling me. I broke away from society’s hold on my subconscious telling me that being a mother would be what made me whole. After I did that, I finally figured out where to start looking for the answer to who I am meant to be. In fact, I was able to find my own path.
It took some work, but I left behind the traditional “life map” that society has drawn out for each of us, and started drawing my own.
Owl Be Me, You Be You.
Once I started following my gut, trusting my intuition and knowing the universe will lead me to where I need to be, things started to feel right. During this time, I had several friends and acquaintances suggest I become a life coach while others loudly applauded my writing. I realized that sometimes the universe speaks to us through people, especially when it is something that we may not hear on our own, and decided to leap.
Now I help others learn how to listen to and trust their intuition to be able to draw their own life maps.
My key tenents:
Mindset creates or destroys everything in our life. It allows us to have the clarity to hear the universe and ask of the universe. Without the right mindset, nothing can change.
Having the right motivation, and being able to draw on that when things get difficult.
The building blocks of having the right mindset is focusing on your core wellness. This includes physical, mental and emotional.
Staying inspired by yourself, your goals and your future. Actively seeking to be continually inspired by others.
Join my e-mail list to start the journey of following your intuition to the answers you need.
It’s time to take the leap and find your path.